Thursday, September 30, 2010

A sad story

Today I am utterly outraged at the story about Tyler Clementi’s suicide. It is despicable that his roommate+ another student thought it OK to videotape him in a sexual encounter in his room and then BROADCAST this on the web. Are you serious? Who told these students that this would be ok? That you can invade someone's privacy for your sick twisted voyeurism ways. To think these acts pushed this talented youth to suicide is utterly heartbreaking because it should not be this way. We should not be this way- the world should not be this way.

The way i see it your teen years and college is hard enough without random people videotaping your sexual romps and broadcasting it for everyone to watch. Yes, this man was gay but THAT DOES NOT MATTER! What matters is that he is a human being with a heart, feelings, emotions and a life that is worth something. If he wanted to have sex with a flipping consenting blow up doll IT DOES NOT MATTER. IT IS HIS CHOICE!!!!  The ridiculous roommate +other student that set this up really need some serious counseling and treatment and I am sure their parents must feel as horrible as the ones who lost their child.

I am saddened that Tyler didn't feel he could speak to anyone about this- that he felt the only way out was to take his own life. How sad is that? How sad that he didn't fell supported enough in his life to be able to openly express this troubling events with the roommate and then the general situation at hand.  I hope that in light of these events the university officials and activists look at this situation- EDUCATE others from it- and understand the value of  Tyler’s  life.

Monday, September 27, 2010

Food

For thought- there aint nothing healthy or nutritious about this it is just the way it is (and the fact that Halloween is approaching and these handy sized boxes are everywhere!)

Sunday, September 26, 2010

coffee thought...

Gemini Horoscope for September 26, 2010
At this point, the thing you need to remember is that while you can love someone just as much as you want to, you can't live their life for them. Forgetting about them may be impossible, too. If you need to take a mini-vacation, however, there's no time like the present. After all, you could spend the next 48 hours worrying about one of your closest -- and craziest -- companions, but why would you want to?

yes this means I am vacating my mind of some people for the next 48 hrs (give or take) and concentrating on 1 or more of my multiple personalities so we can all get it together!

deuces...

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

FBI & other secrets

FBI & other secrets
So as I was on the #4 train going uptown to the BX I learned about a whole bunch of secrets. Like the dude who was a 40 year old white male who is currently having an affair with this 34 year old woman who is different and exciting in bed than his wife who just had their 2nd kid.
He was talking to his buddy- who was feeling some sort of way about being 40 and "boring" vs 40 and "dangerous". He recently took his 19yr old nephew and friends to a Boston Red Sox baseball game where they were the seemingly only Yankee fans & the 40-yr old bore was proud of getting ejected from that game. He stated "I was {}this close to getting arrested"'ooooh bad ass. Meanwhile the adulterer was stating his sis in law works for the FBI as well as her hubby. BadAss says I met her- Katie/ Caroline/ Kelly something like that. Adulterer says, her name is now Constance and that is the 3rd time she legally changes her name in accordance with her job. BadAss also took this moment to remark on her hubby who was considered dumpy looking with beer belly and comb-over. Adulterer was like I know this is the type they looking for- all unassuming and shit (unlike himself who is supposedly a catch-- riiight)... Like this is the conversation they should be having on the train coupled with the fact homeboy (A.Dick) still had his employee wall street name badge still pinned to his pants. Even I with my less than Sherlock skills could probably put 2+2 together and figure out who he married who just had a baby, who he fluckin since they work together (shame), and who his bro in law/ sis in law is and completely blow their Alias...
Alas I use my powers for good rather than evil but suffice to say you never know who's listening to your public private conversations or your private public conversations...


sent from iPhone

Monday, September 20, 2010

coffee thought

It's Monday and the start of a new week. Time to get it going!

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2:55 pm edit:
SO i saw this article on CNN basically claiming too much caffeine caused the murder of this persons' girlfriend. Somehow this is insane because really blame the coffee and not the crazy huh?

That's all...

Sunday, September 19, 2010

Dark&Stormy

For my peoples in Bermuda-
May this hurricane pass the island and leave ya unscathed.

Official Recipe:

Dark 'n' Stormy
1.05 oz of Goslings Black Seal Rum
Ginger Beer - (i am partial to Barritts Gingerbeer, which is only available in BDA)
dash o' Lime
ice cubes & a glass


BUT be careful when citing this drink...as seen here in this NYT article

Saturday, September 18, 2010

Hmm

Really can someone lick parts of my fingers and other parts!
Really!

Thursday, September 16, 2010

poem of the day

I should have said yes that night
When you asked me
Do I love you
You see in that moment I was caught
Between the truth (yes) and lies
(also known as your life)
In that moment I hoped I heard you correctly
Hoped you told me you loved me too
No, it was just a question
Just simply do you?
While I wanted to tell you yes
Because this I swore you already knew
The only thing I did that night was rid myself of you
Do I love you?
Somethings you'll just never know
But now that we see each other again
I think it's time you go
Home to your life
Home to your wife
Home to the life you already know
Less risk involved
Less love too
This is the life you chose because
I was afraid to love you


sent from iPhone

Aww man, recession!

I took the extra walk from my current office to go up to this deli (located by my old office where i had a view/ office door, etc.....) where they made the best tuna sandwiches on wheat ever (next to homemade this was good) and was good money ($4.50) for samich & pickle! I get there hustling cause I got to make it to my therapy appointment and gasp! It's closed! Now I was just there like July but man oh man they are closed... I hope Maria (who made my coffee excellently) was able to find other better jobs...But this leaves me on the hunt for lunch....stay tuned!

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

this signifies the end of summer...

this signifies the end of the summer...i am retireing these sandals

Name: Steve Madden Cost: about $29.00

Type: gladiator/ ankley flat sandals

I wore these babies OUT. These puppies took me thru various task here in the big Apple & abroad (St. Thomas anyone?) I loved the way they were beaded and jewely which went with just about any outfit (so long as one had a cute pedicure in any of the lucious candy colors summer brings about)

Ahh the memories... but alas since the weather has changed to the cooler (hello fall boots!) and the toes need to be covered (cause this lil' piggy does NOT need to go to the Dr. on some cold shit) we have to say farewell to the lovely sandals.

coffee thought...

I agree..life should be delicious...
i am just waiting for my taste
hope to hell i don't have an allergic reaction
(cause I am allergic to nuts!!!)
that's all...

Monday, September 13, 2010

Killin em today

With the shoes!
IF i showed the whole outfit
I would be fierce
(not exactly sasha fierce but close enough)
got a few compliments ;0
Anywho...
more on life later!

Friday, September 10, 2010

Friday, September 03, 2010

Bermuda pink sand

Horseshoe bay beach
I am sitting here chilling watching them build sand sculptures
* and hopefully a sand castle*
in Bermuda.
Pink sand..blue water...waves crashing
(literally cause hurricane Earl is passing off the coast so the rip tide/ undertow is wicked)
I wouldn't trade this moment for anything...