You appear to be seeking the unconventional and different in style and appearance.
Willingness on the part of others to do the unexpected is exciting to you.
Working with groups of children may be in your near future.
really???
Friday, February 21, 2014
Wednesday, February 05, 2014
Coffee thought...
Another snowy day in the frozen apple
Sometimes
I feel like I was acclimated to a
much more warmer and tropical climate
at least in my head.
I have
Bermuda, Bahamas
and other stuff on my mind.
Monday, February 03, 2014
Monday, January 27, 2014
Horoscope: Gemini: January 27th, 2014
You have to learn the art of forgiveness. This is not so much about forgiving others during this phase as letting go of your own self-defeatist attitude and accepting yourself for who you are.Traumatic experiences that occurred in the past contribute towards who you are now.You can see these events in a positive light if you try.
...and I try and I try and I try....
...and I try and I try and I try....
Tuesday, January 14, 2014
Tuesday, January 07, 2014
Happy New Year--kinda late...
Happy New year!
I mean I am 7 days into 2014 and 2 days back to work so that is a plus.
A plus because work was closed due to the ridiculous amounts of snow experienced in the NYC area...
(sigh)
I need to move to Bermuda stat...
anywho
What has happened in the previous days of my non blogging self?
Well, mostly just figuring out some things about myself for myself AND watching a bunch of movies (crash, a wonderful life, Mandela, horror stuff) had a great time at a NYE party at TD house (#nobehaviorcrew) and then a good chill session.
Today.
It seems like chef has had a relapse and has checked himself into 'the place'. What is troubling (not only about 'the place') is that we (his other sibling + me + his other aka girlfriend) had a real conversation session on Sunday about their relationship and the parameters in which they show love.
It wasn't working (the conversation and space between them) and proceeded to make everyone involved some tea (hey, I'm part British and it soothes the soul) I chatted with them some more and tried to determine their intentions--- hell, everyones intentions for that matter---and clarify those intentions and actions toward each other that they do to get to their love.
Also wanted them to communicate better and make things work (that's just me, but that aint my business)...but at that time , could tell bro had checked out of this part of reality and was entering his world.
What does this mean?
Well, being back in the hospital means he has access to folks he can talk to to probably help better get situated to the things that are going on.
It also means he recognizes when he is in need and that is better than being forceably placed.
He also said that they appreciated the chat with me and I know what I am doing.
I guess...
I hope.
Update 1/21/14: bro is out and doing fine. a little reset button never hurt no one.
I mean I am 7 days into 2014 and 2 days back to work so that is a plus.
A plus because work was closed due to the ridiculous amounts of snow experienced in the NYC area...
(sigh)
I need to move to Bermuda stat...
anywho
What has happened in the previous days of my non blogging self?
Well, mostly just figuring out some things about myself for myself AND watching a bunch of movies (crash, a wonderful life, Mandela, horror stuff) had a great time at a NYE party at TD house (#nobehaviorcrew) and then a good chill session.
Today.
It seems like chef has had a relapse and has checked himself into 'the place'. What is troubling (not only about 'the place') is that we (his other sibling + me + his other aka girlfriend) had a real conversation session on Sunday about their relationship and the parameters in which they show love.
Side note:
why is it folks come to me with their relationship issues?
me the currently non relationship having one?
me, also the one who is looking for love but coming up empty.
me, the one who also know what is not acceptable/
what is a deal breaker
and what is not tolerable.
eh.
I guess it's me.
It wasn't working (the conversation and space between them) and proceeded to make everyone involved some tea (hey, I'm part British and it soothes the soul) I chatted with them some more and tried to determine their intentions--- hell, everyones intentions for that matter---and clarify those intentions and actions toward each other that they do to get to their love.
Also wanted them to communicate better and make things work (that's just me, but that aint my business)...but at that time , could tell bro had checked out of this part of reality and was entering his world.
What does this mean?
Well, being back in the hospital means he has access to folks he can talk to to probably help better get situated to the things that are going on.
It also means he recognizes when he is in need and that is better than being forceably placed.
He also said that they appreciated the chat with me and I know what I am doing.
I guess...
I hope.
Update 1/21/14: bro is out and doing fine. a little reset button never hurt no one.
Tuesday, December 31, 2013
coffee thought...
coffee thought...
It's been a minute and considering we are winding down to the end I the year and folks are reliving what they have done in 2013 and who they have lost in 2013 and who they have gained in 2013 in preparation for 2014 it strikes me as _____ as to what has been accomplished. Somehow this time last year I was not sure of all the things that were going on and never expected the things that have happened. It is a good thing (fingers still crossed) and hopefully an even greater thing.
So what has happened? Travel. Friends lost and gained. Love (ok not really love but an extreme infatuation) curiosity, growth , discernment, happiness, life! I mean in there was many challenges/ and opportunities for stretching the perceived limitations of me. Some things worked out. Others didn't- and that's ok (I have since learned).
Sent from my iPhone
It's been a minute and considering we are winding down to the end I the year and folks are reliving what they have done in 2013 and who they have lost in 2013 and who they have gained in 2013 in preparation for 2014 it strikes me as _____ as to what has been accomplished. Somehow this time last year I was not sure of all the things that were going on and never expected the things that have happened. It is a good thing (fingers still crossed) and hopefully an even greater thing.
So what has happened? Travel. Friends lost and gained. Love (ok not really love but an extreme infatuation) curiosity, growth , discernment, happiness, life! I mean in there was many challenges/ and opportunities for stretching the perceived limitations of me. Some things worked out. Others didn't- and that's ok (I have since learned).
Sent from my iPhone
Thursday, December 26, 2013
Wednesday, December 25, 2013
Merry Christmas to me...
Can you believe this is what my horoscope is telling me?
I mean it is fitting considering how I am feeling but I mean really universe?
Oh and Happy Birthday Baby Jesus...
Sunday, December 22, 2013
Wednesday, December 18, 2013
Hair Stories
So this is me...
before and after..
working on the bangs again
(thanks to Mane Motive)...
I mean why not
(it's been a minute without them)
and she tapered the ends...
Why not end the year with a bang
(in more ways than one..he he he)
hahaha
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| (before/after.. flat ironed out) |
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| back view... |
Wednesday, December 11, 2013
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