coffee thought...

it is cold here in NYC & election day (go out to vote!)
as I am sipping the sinfully savory sap it gets me to thinking about hugs.
Do you like hugs?*
I tended to think I do however when a particular person hugs me I immediately tense up, what does that mean?
*how i got to the hug analogy is basically the coffee is like a hug of warmth to my insides all soothing and comforting.
sigh....I need a man.
that's all...